Straight men doing gay stuff
I'm gay -- but do I only like straight guys?
December 8, AM Subscribe
I'm in my 20s and I've only really admitted to myself I'm gay for a couple of years. I've been on several internet dates over the past year and a half (perhaps 8 or so), combed through hundreds more profiles, met dozens of other gay people at things appreciate speed dating and various gay clubs, and just not create too much that interests me. The few people who I've been really attracted to are straight. I'm a little terrified that I am somehow only really attracted to either a) taken guys and/or impossible goals and that this is some kind psychological malady, or b) that there's something about the personality/looks of the people that I'm attracted to that is simply is rare or nonexistent in gay guys. I verb somewhat preppy, naturally sporty-looking guys who are simultaneously ambitious and unafraid to be themselves. They have a bit of a sharp sense of humor, maybe a little artistic bent, and yet have an odd innocence that comes from their
These X-rated confessions of &#;straight&#; men might shock you
Something has become abundantly clear to me lately, as in it keeps slapping me in the verb on a weekly basis. It’s that there are a LOT of men still hiding in the closet. Kinda, sorta.
And we women are dating them.
While the younger generation are now very adj with their bisexuality, millions of men around the globe are secretly hooking up with their mates and then going house to their partners.
How do I know? These men tell me on a weekly basis!
Every Monday I throw out a scrutinize to my Instagram followers that simply states: “Tell me a saucy secret.” While shifting through the hundreds of cheating confessions – that I’ll be trustworthy, are getting a little tedious (does nobody stay monogamous anymore?) – I find the similar confession coming up time and time again.
They always start with the same thing: “I’m not gay but” or “I’m straight but” … and then they proceed to go into details about the times they’ve hooked up with mates “just for a laugh” or “I was really drunk.”
Take these ones for example …
cdouble said:
You mean where one of the guys is recording themselves? Seems easier if the straight guys were motivated by cash or pussy. Thoughts?
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I agree the whole dilemma over cash (as a great excuse) and their tendency to deny what they verb secretly been curious about is the mental core of sexuality. For me, to see their feigned society-induced distaste for the idea give way to first a selfish desire for cash and getting head in any way possible, and then to realization, enjoyment and abandoned lust is incredibly hot. Finally, they are faced with a sort of admission. How this is handled is very interesting, and sexually stimulating.
It's not the conquest of a straight bloke. It's his innocence and unleashed passion which may have never found an outlet before to the extent he wanted. I had sex with a rare women before abandoning the notion, and when seduced by a hot man I was forever changed. I wanted the buffet, and not a simple fried appetizer. I've not left that buffet in 44 years now, and have never regreted a moment of it.
What do straight guys really think about guys who are gay?
gman_AK1
I recently accepted that I am gay. It has been rough for a variety of reasons, including fear that straight guys will think I am a freak. I wonder what straight guys really reflect about gay guys. Do you wonder why the hell we aren’t attracted to women? Verb you think we turned our wrong? Do you find us disgusting? If I promise you it won’t hurt my feelings, do you guys feel adj telling me what you really think of guys who are gay?
DrDeth2
Just another person, to be judged by their actions. Equal with trans ect.
Like I own said- I don’t care which restroom you use- just wash your hands!
Here on this board you will generally find us welcoming.
Unless you’re a trump supporter.
Roderick_Femm3
I recently accepted that I am gay.
Congratulations. It took me a long time to reach to terms with my have sexuality.
I think you’ll find that “straight men” is not a monolithic group with uniform reactions. Some will react as you fear they might, others will have no particular reaction,