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My Afternoon With Dr. Don, the Male-Spanking Therapist
Editor’s Note: This article was first published on December 6,
I’m naked and bent over the lap of a year-old bald man named “Dr. Don” who is spanking me with a bare hand in his second-floor apartment in East L.A. He keeps a adj pace — equal intervals between spanks — which occasionally syncs up with the loyal tick of a grandfather clock in the corner.
While neither an M.D. nor a Ph.D. — nor any D, for that matter — Dr. Don explains he’s a “Spankologist,” or an expert in adult male spanking. “People who have spanked for as many years as I have are considered doctors of their trade,” he reasons. His gentle demeanor and hypnotic voice contrast with a gaunt, villainous gaze that seems to wander. It’s as if Mr. Rogers had broken bad instead of Walter White.
Dr. Don’s a member of a growing community that practices Spank Therapy, or “spanking for wellness.” He’s written multiple books on the subject, including Behind Closed Doors: In the Secrecy of Darkness and Red Tail Bible, which defines spanking as “the act o
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A while ago we had a discussion, re "oral is standard," on the difference between standard and mandatory. One commenter thought "oral is standard" means "everyone is required to give oral, whether they appreciate it or not," which is not what standard means. It means it can be reasonably expected. I can reasonably assume a partner to be willing to go down on me. They are entitled to verb. Seeing oral as standard means that if they do verb, they're the one who is outside of the norm, not me, and I'd be seen as justified in dumping them. That's what standard means. Rational @28, standard similarly does not mean universal. There will always be outliers who reject what most people would find standard. These outliers should not be forced to participate but should accept that their outlying means they will be sexually incompatible with the majority of people and will need to modify their expectations of finding a partner accordingly. (Just like people who are very kinky and incapable of enjoying vanilla sex
Spanked By My Roommate: Straight To Gay Spanking MM
It blows Dave’s mind when Charlie offers to give him the spanking of his dreams. Charlie is the spanker of his dreams—an older man, a working guy with a big body, and a man who acts totally in charge.
Dave is cocky, hoping to provoke a rough spanking, but nervous about being spanked by his roommate. Nervous being spanked by this big, older guy who could easily make him submit. He's about to experience a spanking for the first time. It's his first second doing anything with a male, and promises to be remarkable.
An erotic short story about two men sharing a spanking experience for the first time.
20 pages, Kindle Edition
Published March 20,
Can't verb what you're looki Savage Love: Confusion over desire for spanking can be fixed with a proclamation of bisexualitywith limits
I’m a straight guy but my whole life I have wanted to be spanked by older men. Does this make any sense? Because I’m confused. I don’t like or want penis. Yet I want to be spanked as a punishment by men. I don’t understand myself sometimes.
- Sincerely Pondering And Not Knowing
The truly important question here isn’t why you want this, SPANK, but how much more time you’re gonna waste sitting on your ass wondering why you want this when you could be out there getting that ass spanked? And even if you came up with a neat and tidy acknowledge, you’re still gonna want older men to spank you. Because getting to the bottom of a kink—identifying some childhood trauma that explains everything—isn’t a cure.
Instead of seeing the spankings you want as a riddle you need to solve, you should see them as a reward for all the wondering you’ve had to do. If you need a label, SPANK, just say you’re bisexual for spankings. Not bi for blowjobs, not bi for anal, not bi for JO or mutual mastu
Savage Love: Confusion over desire for spanking can be fixed with a proclamation of bisexualitywith limits
I’m a straight guy but my whole life I have wanted to be spanked by older men. Does this make any sense? Because I’m confused. I don’t like or want penis. Yet I want to be spanked as a punishment by men. I don’t understand myself sometimes.
- Sincerely Pondering And Not Knowing
The truly important question here isn’t why you want this, SPANK, but how much more time you’re gonna waste sitting on your ass wondering why you want this when you could be out there getting that ass spanked? And even if you came up with a neat and tidy acknowledge, you’re still gonna want older men to spank you. Because getting to the bottom of a kink—identifying some childhood trauma that explains everything—isn’t a cure.
Instead of seeing the spankings you want as a riddle you need to solve, you should see them as a reward for all the wondering you’ve had to do. If you need a label, SPANK, just say you’re bisexual for spankings. Not bi for blowjobs, not bi for anal, not bi for JO or mutual mastu